Especially coming from your partner. Someone you love and care for
Silent treatment to punish is the worst. Sometimes silent treatment cos they need supposed space to handle their emotions is equally bad as they let those thoughts fester without expressing and that is a dangerous rabbit hole đłïž
Right? I told him, if you need time to cool off, tell me. Ill give you the time and space you need. Dont disappear and i was really clear on that.
Then say you need space and space will be given to you
Righht! God i love you people here. I feel so validated
No one likes to be treated with silence. Cuz silence doesnât communicate
We are always here for yah đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»
All i get from friends is drop him and find another one..
Donât go all silent treatment and ghost when we are overthinking how they are and whatâs happening now to this relationship etcâŠthatâs causing some sleepless nights too on our part and thatâs unfair
Like?.. are you not supposed to try to fix it first before giving up??
My RL GFs will say the same đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł TBH
Louderrr! And i semi told hin that haha so hopefully i really got through him.
The fact that we understand why people behave in certain ways doesnât mean we have to put up with it.
Nonetheless, I hope heâll appreciate your value and work on himself for his own sake and for what you both share.
Just do your method. Never mind what others say
Theyâre only saying all that cuz theyâre looking out for you and they donât understand the real situation
So itâs typical to get a response like theirs
If you come from a place of trying to fix something before you seek something new, do it pls so you owe it to yourself to not have any regrets or what ifs in life
And you know youâve tried this time đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»
At least you tried, he tried and if it didnât work out, we move on đđ»respectfully wishing each other the best. if heâs hurting you though, i trust your friends know best too thatâs why they would advise you to find another who wouldnât hurt youâŠ
I get it but at the same time, why bother being with him if i wasnt going to try and fix things when things get tough? Id explain more but hahaha too long
Exactllyy! If it doesnt work out this time, then at least we both tried and did our best.
I really appreciate you guys like fr â€ïž
âșïžđ·đžđ·đ«¶cheers Hunâš
All the best, bye đđŒ!
We always here if you need to chat đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ» blow off steam đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Also, since we got back, i havenât been afraid to open up about how i feel. Just a few days ago, i opened uo about something expecting him to blow up or give me the silent treatment, but he stayed and listened. Explained his side too. So i really think weâre going in the right direction đ„č
Not 100% open, but i can really see heâs trying.
Yay đđ»đđ»đđ»
Hahahaha ikr. You guys are my Go to when things get rough with us đ you guys have been a great support since we started dating â€ïž
My exes can learn a few from your BF đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
We work better together đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ» supporting each other. I never do truly understand why some ppl just gotta be mean. Oh well đđđ
HAHAHAHA. My bf would be like âi cba bbâ đ
Most of the time people donât need advice; they need someone to be present as they process what their gut is already telling them.
(Quote I read today, that I completely relate to)
Do you mean older than you?
Or do you want to talk to an old woman?
Itâs confusing đ«€
Anyway, if you need to ask anything that you think others in this group can help you with, you can ask it here.
