It is rude to send mixed signals to someone you’re dating. And much more to not even answer a message.
If you have decided to stop seeingcommunicating with someone, it should be explained.
Yeah it slwsys upset me shen texting someone then they just stop . Then pick back up next day . If your tired or busy , just say so not leave me hanging
Does having this app count as cheating ?
Cheating is just a concept
It’s just people’s displeasure of having someone else taking away a resource. In this cause a partner who benefits you
Some actually suffer from betrayal trauma from cheating partners and that isn’t real? That’s wild.
The supposed partner “who benefits you” are just making selfish & cowardly choices to cheat. Don’t even mention the displeasure say it as it is : sheer disrespect from someone who can sleep with others and pretend or lie all the time when they come home to you.
It is cheating depending on what you use it for.
To cheat is to act dishonestly
And it is not what someone perceives.
It is what someone does
Spitting truth in this chat lol
Is that what homewreckers think these days? Cheating is a concept? Moral compass gone wrong
Respect and do not take things that do not belong to you even if you think said resource would benefit you
Your partner is not a resource.
At least, this is not how I see it
I think this is more the definition of jealousy
For them to see a partner as a resource or partner who benefits means those Iloveyou = IUseYou
Cheating in a relationship is doing anything that is not agreed upon (behind your back), that is not acceptable according to the relationship terms, to go beyond reasonable limits with other people, no matter how (irl, chat…) and hiding those acts from your partner because you know you are not doing the right thing
The crab’s concept of cheating just focused on the betrayed partner’s feelings but nothing on the cheating partner’s choices and the third party’s actions too especially if they know they will hurt someone if found out. I can’t imagine living a life knowingly hurting someone else.
Currently breaking my addiction to p0rn because my wife and I agree that it’s a form of cheating. A lot of other people may not see it that way, but I certainly do. And because it hurts her, that’s enough in my book. So I think it can vary to some degree, but anyone who is reducing relationships to purely transactional is just way off. That’s dehumanizing. Crab is off their rocker.
We are not responsible for someone else’s emotional wellbeing, but we are responsible for our actions and the consequences of them.
Cheating is choosing to hurt.
It is choosing selfishly.
So what i I told him I had this app would it be cheating then ?
You don’t have to use this app to cheat. So simply being active on the app isn’t necessarily cheating.
I respect that 🐳 🫡 you are acknowledging your wife’s feelings and that’s admirable.
Chatting to people isn’t a bad thing. It depends on what you use this app for.
Agree. Are you using the app to have private conversations with others without his knowledge? Then yes, that’s cheating. What are you using the app for essentially…some come online to just seek advice or chat with others in groups not DMs to draw boundaries.
Chatting is not cheating per se . It’s just a conversation like in real life, it’s cheating if it goes beyond tgat
Are you on this app to get something you aren’t getting from him? Either emotionally or sexually? If yes then it’s cheating
It can be a concept but it can also be a moral. And many of us see “infidelity” as morally wrong. Values do not align and hence, trust and respect is lost. So it’s definitely more than just a concept. Just be a better person 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 and strive for that instead of temporary pleasure
Cheating is not some concept
To the yellow 🦀, he differs
I suppose if you only lust in you mind or heart but never do anything it’s a concept
Feeling attracted to other people is natural.
Deciding what to do about it is your decision.
Respecting the boundaries established in your relationship is a decision.,
