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Heโ€™s just a stranger I met online but idk why I feel this heavy in heart ๐Ÿ˜ฉ
I feel you Jenny
Our story maybe different but still it hurts so damn bad
Because you want to be loved And you feel rejected
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Whatโ€™s your story
Youโ€™re right ..
Itโ€™s hard to find right person
it's hard to find a person to fall in love with, it's harder to find you guys are on the same page
guess relationship sucks sometimes
cause ppl are changeable
I thought it was just women who are fickle and changeable and don't keep their promises
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Well now you know itโ€™s human nature
I wouldnโ€™t bother trying to find the โ€œright personโ€. Sometimes we find the right people for different times of our lives. Everlasting love is maybe too ambitious
Message me please I have a legitimate question
>>> I wouldnโ€™t bother trying to find the โ€œrigh... I know it can be done. My grandparents did it. 70+ years of marriage and they died within a few weeks of each other. Almost like in the notebook. So what am I missing? What's the secret?
Mine too.
But we are a different generation
We have been raised to different standards
Ask away please ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ
anybody doing online couples therapy in here?
Mostly just individuals but you can share your concerns in here if youโ€™d like ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป
I donโ€™t think any of us is a therapist here
Not professionally, at least. Just a bunch of like minded individuals helping each other out by listening and providing whatever clarity that you need
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Hi there
>>> Saim, welcome to "Relationship Advice๐Ÿ’Œ๐Ÿ“ฑ"... Thanks
Trueeeeee
Iโ€™m getting older and Iโ€™m scared.. I wanna fall in love I wanna feel being completely in love with someone who loves me the same way.. I wanna experience real love โ˜น๏ธ
From personal experience, it helps if you love yourself more and then youโ€™ll attract those who really love you for who you are, regardless your age. I rather be on my own making beautiful memories travelling โœˆ๏ธ than in a bad relationship that makes me feel lonely or disrespected, worse, they make me feel I was never good enough, took me for granted and gaslit me. There are others who actually showed me otherwise and whatโ€™s my worth. I wouldnโ€™t have met them if I wasnโ€™t truly healed or loved m...
I wouldnโ€™t have met them if I wasnโ€™t truly healed or loved myself most, drawing clear boundaries of what I want so that bare minimum = letโ€™s move on respectfully. It is what it is.
I agree โ˜๐Ÿผ Although that personal search for self love is sometimes even harder. And it takes lots of painful experiences. ๐Ÿ˜ข
As I said before, focusing on finding โ€œloveโ€ or the โ€œright personโ€ is, in my opinion, too exhausting and we may fall for the wrong person just because we are too eager to be chosen.
Getting to know people in comfortable spaces, sharing activities, understanding what we need from others and what we are willing to give to them. I think it would make things easier.
Definitely ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
Idk I have no expectations and just enjoying the journey..not really looking for the right one, if it happens, it happens..the journey is definitely more fulfilling than the destination
That doesnโ€™t sound fulfilling to me
The hardest journey was forgiving myself for staying too long or not seeing the ๐Ÿšฉ takes a long time to convince myself that trauma bonded individuals just believe they would change
It doesnโ€™t really matter what it sounds like to you because it is my journey and not yours..you wouldnโ€™t know whatโ€™s fulfilling to others if you havenโ€™t walked their path
Expectations vs reality
If you manage those expectations, you wonโ€™t be disappointed
Folks get terribly hurt because they were promised a future together and their hopes were dashed when things go wrongโ€ฆstill pining for that impossible future together just hurts more than moving on in life. The sun will always set and rise, regardless what happens. Enjoy ๐ŸŒ…
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