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ืงื‘ืœ ืืช ื”ืืคืœื™ืงืฆื™ื” ื›ื“ื™ ืœืฉืœื•ื— ื•ืœืงื‘ืœ ื”ื•ื“ืขื•ืช ๐Ÿ’Œ ืื ื•ื ื™ืžื™ื•ืช

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ื”ื•ืจื“ ืืช ื”ืืคืœื™ืงืฆื™ื”
ื—ื“ืจื™ ืฆ'ืื˜ ืื ื•ื ื™ืžื™ื™ื, ืžืฉื—ืง ื“ื™ื™ื˜ื™ื ื’ ื•ืชืคืงื™ื“ื™ื ืขื ื–ืจื™ื ืืงืจืื™ื™ื ื‘ืื™ื ื˜ืจื ื˜
ืคืชื— ืืช ืืคืœื™ืงืฆื™ื™ืช ื”ืžืฆืœืžื” ื‘ื˜ืœืคื•ืŸ ืฉืœืš ื•ืกืจื•ืง ืืช ืงื•ื“ ื”-QR ืฉืœืžืขืœื”
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Same ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ but more so on the realistically optimistic ๐Ÿ˜‰
I agree the online thing is definitely frought with difficulty and disappointment in general
I think the further from the norm a person is, the harder it is
Yeah thatโ€™s why if itโ€™s a priority to meet another person, make time and just better to go out like the old school way
Could it be that someone ghosts because they scared of how they feel about u or they are anxious?
Then those people should probably do some more work on themselves before trying to interact that way
yea, but how is this person going to have a serious relationship if this person keeps ghosting someone?
They need to learn how to crawl before they can learn how to run ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ
Easy answer: they donโ€™t
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In my case I genuinely felt like this guy really had feelings I know ghosting is hurtful because I was hurt but maybe the other person is going through something too
If they come back I thinking it's best to listen to their reasons first?
Slippery slope
And one that is up to the individual
Theyโ€™re good at charming you with their words and feed you what you wanna hear
Yeah
For example I've read stories where someone would ghost another person because of eg anxiety or family influence etc And they got married
That's on them ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ
Well, thatโ€™s up to you But why would you want to hold on to that hope?
Dealing with the mismanaged baggage of another person is not something that is desired by everyone
Just be glad that these folks ghost us so early on. Some ppl end up getting married and the partner just leaves. No words
That's why I spend roughly 5 years getting to know someone before dating
I wish my ex husband had ghosted me after the first date. ๐Ÿ˜…
Like, they get married. No ๐Ÿšฉ all things are good. Even have kiddos. And one day, the partner just packs up and leave
My grandfather left my grandmother for the babysitter...after 25 years of marriage and 4 kids
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People are often unpredictable, it's seems best to just invest well in ones own ability to discern and form healthy boundaries
Absolutely
All of your in points are valid๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป Was just saying that some people go through a lot and they ghost.they need to work on healing
I think for a lot of people that also includes unlearning whichever unhealthy modes of interacting with others that we were taught by our family through example
Even if they are going through something difficult, I think ghosting is not acceptable.
Everyone is entitled to change their mind,
But the other person has a right to know where to stand from that moment on
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You are ry
Right*
Actually it happened to me. I met someone and the week after I started feeling extremely anxious for reasons that had nothing to do with him
I realised it wouldnโ€™t be fair on him to start any type of relationship on that mental state, so I decided to stop seeing each other.
But I explained it to him.
You did the right thing. Being ghosted hurts big time. Am still hurting.
Try not to take it personal. You did nothing wrong. It is an act of cowardice .
I try to forget I delete their number and find myself adding them back on my contact list I guess I fell in love.. I got attached But I know one day I will forget
I've got strict protocol for it myself, and will only ghost on a person, regardless of how long I've known them, if they get pervy with me after being asked to stop
Just heal fully before you move on ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป
Or psychotic violent words type of thing, which seems quite reasonable
Some folks apparently canโ€™t tell what โ€œnoโ€ means and thinks they can just disregard and continue
Psychotic words ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ Thatโ€™s a new level of scary
Yeah, I block as soon as I see a ๐Ÿšฉ is displayed. Ainโ€™t got time for that shhhh ๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿ‘€