You can't isolate yourself just because something might not last forever. Otherwise I would Never date 😂
Well all have different reasons for poly. I personally view time differently and would have no interest in short term relationships
WHO here is in a poly relationship
Looking but not currently
I met a girl irl who was poly but she revealed she had an STD
>>> WHO here is in a poly relationship
Meeeee
Wife and I broke up with our third but still poly so me I guess
>>> WHO here is in a poly relationship
I am. I have been polyamorous for over a decade now. 😃
>>> Wife and I broke up with our third but sti...
Your third? 😬
I try to refer to the women in my life as partner, so I can emphasize my responsibility to them rather than emphasize head count.
>>> Your third? 😬
We would have if it got to that stage. Emphasis on the if, being manipulated isn't fun and removing toxicity from the dynamic doesn't always require retention of respect for that person
Don't get me wrong I hear you though
I'm sorry that it wasn't a positive experience. That's bad.
It's been such a lovely day.
lol, what was good about it?
I think the happy hormone just kinda went in my favour. Not quite sure. And it was clear and breezy out today.
Imma need you to share some of that hormone… or become my dealer 😂😂😂
>>> Imma need you to share some of that hormon...
If I could bottle it, I'd be a millionaire.
But probably a trillionaire more likely
>>> Uk weather always stupid
I love when fog settles into the Welsh hills.
I'd try to find a way to give it for pennies. Im all about affordable healthcare.
>>> It's been such a lovely day.
I appreciate that! It's a lesson learned though right? My primary partner and I were really hopeful this potential partner was the right fit within the dynamic but they truly were just narcissistic and manipulative. No denying, the joy myself and my primary partner found in being able to finally communicate things to each other we were struggling with as we described them occurring with this partner was refreshing! So we learned a lot
Sorry for the book, today was beautiful though, such amazing clouds and hailrain
ive been dating someone for like 4 months now and they're really non comital, they'll show me lots of attention one day and none another day but are pretty awful at communicating. we're both poly. i wanna keep em around but i want more attention from them, do you think it's unfair to seek someone else just for the attention they'll give me?
You have to ask him about it and see how he feels first, but usually I'll say that you should seek the attention from someone else, but also keep him around since yall are poly.
I think that you need to evaluate this relationship separately from other connections. Regardless of whether you see someone else, if youre not happy with this connection you can talk to them about your needs. If your needs aren't being met and youre unhappy in the connection, you can leave. It sounds like the inconsistentcy bothers you more than anything
I would never expect one person to be my Everything, but it's reasonable to ask for a level of consistency and healthy communication
I really do like them it's just they're not in a place to focus on a relationship and my needs never seem like a priority to them. It's just hard when I'm always excited about them and they're sometimes excited by me
Please can I talk to somebody here
>>> I really do like them it's just they're no...
That's totally up to you if you're comfortable with that exchange and enjoy the connection, even if youre aware that you might be investing a little more than them.
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