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And no, I’m not related poly to just physical intimacy. It’s just folks now a days place it highly on their escalators. Where for me, it’s not near the top, in fact it’s not a driving force for me when getting to know someone. I want to know you, see how you handle yourself, see the different ways you experience intimacy that’s not bedroom related. I want to learn about what interests you, hobbies etc.

Also sorry for the novels 😂

To be fair, regardless of “orientation” or “relationship structure” a lot of people (dudes in particular) are going to be interested more in the physical side. I think it’s less to with who you are and more to do with a lot of people function on surface level emotions and attractions because going deep is scary, risky, and a lot of times very painful. But bad players exist in all spaces.

Yes I’d say that’s a fair thing to say

But how I’d define Demi, is someone that forms emotional connections with people before physical based ones. My partner doesn’t tend to care what others look like, but how the act and treat others

Yessies 🖤

Now if only some people would understand that means having more than one conversation 😂

The best poly approach for you is probably to just try to establish friendships first, and they grow behind that, great! It’s just another avenue to establish depth in the connection. (Which is how my partner approached her boyfriend)

Yeah, even making friends is really hard as an adult!

Yeah I’ve kinda figured as much, so things have kinda settled into I’m not actively looking, is someone comes along and we can be platonic, im happy as a clam. And yes it really is 😂

So my spectrum side is coming out now, but do you think there’s a short cut to make friends, or maybe an efficient way, maybe?

😅😅 I’m neurospicy. I don’t know. I always feel awkward. Like “hey 👉🏻👈🏻 I noticed you like dinosaurs. I too like the dinosaurs” 😂

Watching my partner talk with others has been an interesting thing for me, because she’s tended to bond most with people that have common interests, but that’s not how she bonded with me. And given my heavily introvert tendencies and relatively simple and structured life, I have to wonder if that’s a big reason why things tend to fizzle out for me. I have an infinite curiosity, but what happens when the questions run out?

Oh interesting, and a new way for me, to think about how one can lose interest in things like hobbies, and jump from one to the next 🤔

How many hobbies would you say you’ve had over a lifetime?

Or jeez, over a lifetime? Hm… 30-ish?

😳

😂 ok but hear me out, a lot of them a creativity related

lol I’m only at 6 😩

A couple different sports, physical activities, creativity related ones, baking, journaling, books etc

Oh, just searching for different creative ways to express yourself, or just trying on some pants to see if they fit or not?

I’ve gotten into making suncatchers, paintings, photography, candle making, soap making, jewelry making. A few others lol

Some of it is for expression, but also it quiets the brain and when I really enjoy something, I can hyper focus on the process and not have a billion other things run through my head so it’s nice way to decompress and relax

Wow, that’s definitely a diverse field! I was hoping for more writing based ones because it’s hard finding people to talk about poetry or erotica with.

Do you have any favorites?

Hey, everyone! It's nice to see people sharing their perspectives.

How’s it going?

Going well. Just got back from dinner not long ago.

Looks good

It was fantastic. I had a great time. ^_^

Hey are u looking for a poly parner

I'm looking for a Poly Partner

Hey all

How is everyone today?

Good and you

Doing very well, thank you. Less than an hour before I'm off work. Woohoo!

Woohoo

Working late

I’m Just chilling in bed

Oh it must be late for you then

It’s 11:17 pm here

Hiii

Hi 👋

Hii

How’s it going

I need another cup of tea.

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