I was a little down. There was a guy I was chatting to recently. But then I saw him being homophobic in a group chat and I had to get away from him.
I’m sorry you had to experience that… it must be hard… especially as you start to get more attached. Better now than never I guess …
It’s quiet again in this room
I would be happy if a woman wanted to see another guy
Ever get the feeling like you wanna fall in love again but you don't have the energy to date? 🫤
>>> Ever get the feeling like you wanna fall i...
Yessss I feel that. I would enjoy being in an established relationship with another great human, but dating? Absolutely not 😂
Dating is just exhausting. And then the talking phase. Ugh. I'm too olddddddd.
No ur not ur hot and young
Haha well thank you. But my joints.
Ah well. We all get old of we're lucky.
>>> Dating is just exhausting. And then the ta...
Agreed. I have to sift through all of the dating profiles, find a compatible match, do all the chatting, and do a bunch of first dates. Ugh. Who has that kind of energy? 😂
Not me. That leaves less "3am cheese on the couch" time.
And less cuddle with my pup time!
I need more time eating lots of choc
Iv already eaten like 7 Easter eggs and it’s not even Easter yet
Exactly! We went to the pup park and had omelettes for lunch together today 😃
Oh my gosh that sounds really nice.
>>> Iv already eaten like 7 Easter eggs and it...
I haven't gotten an Easter basket yet.
Oh my gosh. A poly Easter egg hunt would be so much fun.
Iv got a choc tub next to me and I just refilled it
Must be nice to actually get to sift through profiles.
Yeah I don't know where any of those profiles are. Even the popular ENM app is full of people wanting one night stands.
I'm too demi for that, honestly.
I'm not interested in sleeping with everyone in a 5 tent radius at a festival.
>>> I'm not interested in sleeping with everyo...
They're not hookup apps. Theyre actual dating apps with full profiles.
Don’t think anyone would swipe right if they saw my pic
So you have to actually read profiles, and answer questions, and review compatibility instead of just swiping
If you’re talking about the one starting with an F, it tends to be just swingers in my area
I'm on the big poly one that starts with an F. Pretty much all swingers in my area
>>> If you’re talking about the one starting w...
Yep
>>> I'm on the big poly one that starts with a...
Oh yeah, there are a lot of swingers and unicorn hunters on that one, although it has gotten a lot better in my area over the past few years
I only get UH messaging me on OKC 😞
>>> I only get UH messaging me on OKC 😞
Really? I've gotten a couple there. But there are a lot of queer and polyamorous people on there in my area
Dunno why I we never seen it listed that way before
If I'm going to date anyone else, it's probably going to be a woman. So far it's all, "but you have to talk to my husband first." Like...what?
>>> Her I like a lot.
I like her but a lot of monogs. I find that OKC, people are more serious about actually meeting up and dating because they fill out a whole profile and answer all of the compatibility questions, etc.
>>> If I'm going to date anyone else, it's pro...
Eww gross, I dont play those reindeer games
Me either. Like...I don't have the energy anymore to have hugely parallel relationships. But I don't need to be asked to date the husband anymore.
>>> Me either. Like...I don't have the energy ...
Agreed, you need a healthy middle ground. My current relationship is KTP, and everyone gets along great. But I like a healthy separation. I dont need to get involved with metas, it gets too messy
One of my relationships is more parallel and I learned that it's not something I want to do twice. Planning two Christmases and two versions of my birthday party etc. Over it.
Oooh yeah, that can be very tedious and exhausting
I did parallel for a while and it's hard. I also feel like it creates more jealousy
Although, I have also done KTP and gotten Too close to a meta. It's a fine line lol
Luckily, we haven't encountered a whole lot of jealousy in 5 years, but the logistics are...ugh. Garden Party is my aim, I think.
I don't need everyone in my house all the time lol
Well if its been working for 5 years, it sounds like youre doing it well!
The extra work and events sounds rough though
>>> I don't need everyone in my house all the ...
Oh no, I dont need an interdependent polycule. I like a healthy separation and we can all come together for an occasional meal or game night
I should plan like an Easter egg hunt 🤔
>>> I should plan like an Easter egg hunt 🤔
That does sound like a fun plan. Some people do edibles or shooters or lotto tickets. Whatever youre into, but there are some fun adult Easter egg hunt ideas out there
Oh gosh. I never even thought of incorporating substances. Lol, I'm too wholesome.
Some silly costume jewelry they have to wear
Some people play you have to chug the shooter if you find one, etc but I dont drink like that anymore 😂
Maybe with fake eggs, real ones are too expensive atm…
>>> Maybe with fake eggs, real ones are too ex...
This is a very good point lol
Make sure u save me a Easter egg
>>> Some people play you have to chug the shoo...
I've never actually been a big drinker so I'd never last.
>>> Make sure u save me a Easter egg
Will do! 🥚
Okay, time to watch this film. I have a personal goal of doing things without looking at my phone. To be more present.
I am going to watch Holland.
>>> Okay, time to watch this film. I have a pe...
Good for you! Enjoy
I should go bed soon as clocks go forward in 30 mins
Hmmm. Holland does not get a good review from me. But it was a good exercise in being more present.
Hi all. Im married of course but I’d really love to chat with another woman.
I would rather be the supportive partner
Hello, me and my husband are looking for a partner to add to our relationship. We're in nyc if anybody is interested ✨️
