Philippines country guys pm me
I only asked if you had a job to know if you were independent from your parents now.
I was trying to understand your situation. I am not judging you.
I think I explained in a earlier comment my situation but maybe you only saw the rest and misunderstood, I was replying to someone else and replied to you before that last one i still can see
Yes, sorry, I was rushing to work
I understand you’re not in an easy situation
But yeah im not working at the moment, its been hard looking for a job since the pandemic that now i just thought to volunteer at the library a bit
I would take breaks since I felt tired and or depressed from looking plus other stuff
I was about tp write that i felt angry a while ago cause my dad thinks not communicating certain things is ok. I dislike that
Aha
What does he refer toc
I didn't know my sister had an appointment the same day and well its not like we could've made it to my appointment to get my results. But he didnt tell me i guess cause he'd think wed make it. I get that but it would've been to have been communicated that before and or him keep in mind that they wont wait on us
But if I told him that he'd get upset lol
>>> I was about tp write that i felt angry a w...
I heavily relate to this one. Communication with everyone is extremely important, especially direct communication with people. It's hard for me to understand if it's indirect communication. So frustrating.
Omg yes Laine!!! Its nice to know someone relates. I feel so crazy at times for wanting communication overall and it mind boggles me how it can seem like im asking for too much or i cant be upset but i have to be ok or tell them its ok so they can feel ok? What about me too. Idk
Indirect communication is not nice
>>> Omg yes Laine!!! Its nice to know someone ...
Yesss! It's so frustrating because like.. my brain will try to alter what they're saying almost if it's not direct
Sometimes its literally so simple but i think since they struggle to communicate things and overthink and or afraid of being misunderstood etc sometimes it can come out in not the best way so they avoid communicating because it includes confrontation....
I realized i would do this since i was so used to that type of indirect communication
We shouldn't have to be in our heads
>>> We shouldn't have to be in our heads
Agree with ya, wholeheartedly. I'm around if you wanna talk about what's going on ❤️
>>> Sometimes its literally so simple but i th...
Well yeah, that sounds like a trauma response in my book.
Exactly! But they don't want to look into that since it involves some deep stuff..
Aww thank you 💕 same to you
>>> Exactly! But they don't want to look into ...
Sounds about right, yeah I run into that a crap ton.
>>> Aww thank you 💕 same to you
I mean I'll never turn down the opportunity to talk, haha
I need to think like that too lol take the opportunities to talk more
I was sexually abused as a child
By sephora . They let me swipe my card left and right
Hey I need someone to talk to
We are here to listen if you want
Only if the person you dm is okay with it
As long as that person's ok, no one would mind I'm sure
