Gurl same. My man is 10yrs older. Ldr too, he’s very sexual, but has toned down a bit, but mostly teasing now or jokes about it. He’s not very romantic either, but he does try from time to time hahaha. Or when it counts

Finally pushed and initiated i wanted to do vid calls with my bf, i said we could do date nights like eat or watch movies

He was fine with movies, but he finds eating together weird. Idk how to feel about that??

We’re in an LDR for a bit of context and fairly new ig about 4 months

Okay. So i guess kinda normal.. and will do. Thank you light!

I feel so conflicted. LDR is so hard. I keep upsetting myself for wanting more time with my bf. I always said, if he’s going to be busy, to at least tell me. Today after work had like 3 replies until he went to sleep. Those were with hrs of interval

No explanation anything. He just said hes going to bed bc his meds are making hin sleepy

Why is this making me so mad

God its im so mad. I need someone to talk some sense into me ugh

But the time we talk everyday has dramatically reduced that’s why it’s upsetting me. 😔(

But we do talk in the morning and sometimes his breaks.. idk i just feel like if he does that could at least say “hey sorry got busy with this and that”

I don’t mind not talking as long as i get updates or something.. or is that too much?

But i guess at least he’s saying good night now.. used to get mad at him for not saying at least good night.. so better than nothing..

I’ve been giving him space. I reply once he replies and don’t send another message till he replies again. 💀

He’s also semi sick and prolly still stressed right now too. So im trying to think about that. His ears was bleeding a fee days ago and are on meds due to an infection.

He did disappear for like 2 daysthat time.. 😔(

During hospital visits and all..

No.. i dont mind it that much, but like.. just 3 messages after work and straight to bed??? God i am needy..

Idk im confused what i want rn tbh

I guess the time isnt much of an issue, its the amount of time we talk? If that makes sense?

I have this past fee weeks tbh.. but i can also see him trying.. i guess he’s just not where i want him to be?

Yeah, like if he gets busy, at least tell me.. sometimes he does, sometimes he doesnt.. when he doesnt it just really upsets me

Hnnghh. Wellc hopefully i have the courage to do so.. Thank you light 🥹

Thank you for listening and always being therre🥹

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