Jam

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I don’t know what to do at this point. I’ve been trying so hard to convey how i feel clearly.

But it seems it’s not working

He tends to shut me out when we have conflict and doesn’t express how he feels. He just wants to cool down and sweep it under the rug if that makes sense. I try not to push him as much bc i feel like he’ll just shut me out more, but idk what to do now.

For more context. He’s been extra busy lately and tired. Today was the first time he woke up early so i was excited we could talk more, but he kept insisting i go back to sleep. And it just made me feel so hurt and unwanted. I expressed that and he apologized and the ss is the next thing that happened

Yeah, i think so too. So this was my reply. He hasn’t replied since. He’ll most likely reply when he’s going to say he’s tired and going to bed or not reply at all.

I’ve been doing that kinda. If he replies, good. If not then ok.

Im not too sure if he notices or not.

Yeah i left it at that. 😔(

I doubt that he will tbh.

But idk..

Idk how to put it into words.. how to say it without sounding im attacking him..

Okay.. i wont.. thanks guys..

🥹 we got this. We’ll be okay porkchop!!

Ill update you guys in 4-5 hrs. He goes to bed around that time. 😂

You guys here? I told ya. But i do appreciate him letting me know. He used to just disappear.

He’s not the best with words i guess, but he does try with his actions.

This was one of the things we used to argue about. Him not letting me know if he’s going to be busy or go to sleep or what.

Idk tbh. Its been a hot minute since i dated. But this one is LDR so its harder ig

Last LDR i had we ddnt text much, but he did vidcall when he can. Like during lunch break and such. This one.. not a fan of calls. Just chats mostly..

I know right.. im slowly building it up so hopefully we’ll do more calls soon.

And im sorry. That really sucks 😔(

If that is for me, ig a few days ago. He just got busy around 3rd week of nov so long convos has been maybe once or twice a week but we do talk everyday. Just not as long as usual.

No, he’s not that type, thankfully. And he knows that if he needs to go play vid games, he’ll be busy or what, he just needs to tell me.

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