Sorry if im not making any sense 💀
But he was assuring me(honestly surprisingly) that if he wants us to work and stuff, he would need put effort in.
It only worries me bc if it is forced, it could lead to resentment. He’s reassured me he’s doing it for us and all. So maybe i guess im just overthinking it..
This. 100% yeah. Definitely!
He’s talking to me more inshort hahaha. Which is good, but i know him.
And not too sure tbh. He’s got a lot of baggage rn, esp with his family, plus lotsa things not going his way lately like with work and stuff. He’s just been so depressed with all of that happening. I didn’t want to press unless he opened up the topic.
True, he would barely let me in until recently. He’s also explained more about his trauma as to why he reacts the way he does and he’s trying to change that now
Yeah he just kept pushing me away at first tbh
Yeah, thats true tbh. But he just felt so overwhelm. It was one thing aftet another so i kind of understand.
I dont think it was me but im glad he did go so still a win! Hahah
Right? You understand but at the same time.. really? Silent treatment?
Right? I told him, if you need time to cool off, tell me. Ill give you the time and space you need. Dont disappear and i was really clear on that.
Righht! God i love you people here. I feel so validated
All i get from friends is drop him and find another one..
Like?.. are you not supposed to try to fix it first before giving up??
Louderrr! And i semi told hin that haha so hopefully i really got through him.
I get it but at the same time, why bother being with him if i wasnt going to try and fix things when things get tough? Id explain more but hahaha too long
Exactllyy! If it doesnt work out this time, then at least we both tried and did our best.
I really appreciate you guys like fr ❤️
Also, since we got back, i haven’t been afraid to open up about how i feel. Just a few days ago, i opened uo about something expecting him to blow up or give me the silent treatment, but he stayed and listened. Explained his side too. So i really think we’re going in the right direction 🥹
Not 100% open, but i can really see he’s trying.
Hahahaha ikr. You guys are my Go to when things get rough with us 😂 you guys have been a great support since we started dating ❤️
HAHAHAHA. My bf would be like “i cba bb” 😂
