i would take a break and let him get therapy alone
Then see how he acts alone
Is he taking step’s to change at all
Also if u do go back , will these. CHanges last
Or for a little or he will continue later on this
And if u are willing to go thru this again take into consideration , being let down ! And more trauma to process , i would say bail now but that is hard when u love someone
>>> He is conditioning u to accept it and he c...
I second this...
True... P0rn addiction is no joke. Ive readwatch marriages implode cos of it. Never enough
Man I just want to talk to someone with answers or someone who can help
But at the end of the day no one really can because what I want no one can answer or help with
We cant help if u NEVER say what it is
So either say it or stop criticizing this group , thanks
I stress a lot about a lack of family
Thats what is it which is why I say no one can really help me with that
Im sure theres many people out there who know what its like not to have family.
Was not trying to criticize the group. I apologize
What happened to your family and what about friends or having God
Or working o. Personal growth , maybe having a pet can help or more hobbies in meeting new people
We can help u work thru your issues , maybe
It.Can be taken away if someone manipulated u
All healthy relationships mean a give and take dynamics
One sided is u taking care of someone only like your child
Ah shoot the whole gc empty
Someone will be here later if u need anything
Did you reply to my thoughts before? Cos i cant see it anymore haha
Venting... My wife controls everything, always rejects my opinion and spins everything I say. Then gets upset that I give vague answers to things. She doesn't like what I've got to say then gets mad when I go along with what she wants.
How long u been married and why u tolerating mistreatment
Im sure they are good reasons But at some point this takes a vicious toll on u
I hope u can get out of this soon , hugs
Don't want to separate my family. I see my child every day still and don't want to lose that...
Thats a really tough position 😔
Yes so I'll just vent and deal with it. Just sucks.
Truly is.. I hope you find a healthy outlet to let it all out
