There are other places to look too. Just depends on where you’re at. But it’s defo a challenge
Let’s normalize not commenting on others bodies🫶🏻
I was simply trying to give a compliment, not oogle her
I'm sick of walking on eggshells for people I don't know and who know nothing about me
Sure. Some women may accept that but there are some that it won’t appeal to
So I just give up, no more compliments, no more tolerate rants at me when I'm not the reason they're upset, no more trying to make someone happy when they just want to treat me like a rabid dog
Sorry for my mini rant. I'm just tired
Kinda take for example a random dude asks if any ladies wanna PM with him on here….
About 95% of the time, the dude wants to get nottie
And only a small small percentage is someone who legits just wanna chat (non nottie)
It gets old when you are the one who has to bend for everyone
Eventually you feel like you break
That’s why it’s important to focus on yourself rather than finding that person. Do the things that makes you happy. Discover new hobbies and interests
So those who aren’t accepting you, why would you even care how they feel regarding you?
Because I'm tired of being ignored
How others choose to react towards you, you have no control over that. As well, why would you even care what a person who “ignores” you thinks or even want em in your life?
it makes me happy to see this room still going after all these these years 🥲
if anyone is interested in becoming a mod shoot me a message
I'm always angry, i can't feel anything else, i hate myself sm, i hate me sm, i'm tired
Sit with yourself and figure out what is the cause to this feeling
And if it’s something that is out of your control, just be at peace with yourself and let it go
I can’t sleep because of anxiety
You just learn to live with it and try your best to manage it to tolerable
Tomorrow will be my last day
And I’m gonna spend it alone
I just wanted to be able to tell someone hopefully I’ll be able to watch over those I love until we meet again I love you those who love me and I’m sorry I couldn’t make things work like they should have
Yes I’m serious I’ve been on meds it’s not working so what’s the point
reminder that meds only do so much of the work the rest is up to us.
But giving up is not the solution
My point exactly. life is sh!t for everyone. But we gotta be stronger for ourselves.
Talk to her, might she change her mind
Talk to someone buddy, maybe you feel better
