I still want to be in his life
And itās best that you wonāt
You have offered your help
He will ask if he wants to
Saying that he can do that as we are friends not dating no more
Why do you need to be in his life so much?
I donāt have anyone else
It seems, from what you say, that you are in different positions
You need him. He doesnāt
He has all the power in the friendship
One having the power over the other is control
Better no one than someone who isnāt the right person for you
Iām sorry to say it this way
Yeah itās just hard as I have anxiety with making new friends
That person is not interested in having a friendshiprelationship with you
We make friends through mutual interests and connections
Yeah itās so hard though
Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it x
I am sorry he has disappointed you
But you deserve a different type of relationship š
Yeah he literally my only friend away from family and therapists
I unpacked the boxes he sent me home with. Inside are two gifts he got me for our wedding day. Idk what the point of hurting me is. Rubbing it in.
Itās makes him feel better by hurting you, you have to not give him the satisfaction
I want to yell at him but it wonāt do any good. Heās a narcissist who hits women.
We all deserve better than this.
Heās not worth your thought
Iād say something, but sometimes my opinion is suppressed by censorship, even if thereās real evidence to support it
Saying things like: maybe someone isnāt guilty simply because they are accused, doesnāt seem to be acceptable conduct. Honestly, I wish people were more measured in their perceptions, as I think this leads to more good, even if it hinders virtue signalling
You donāt have to accept anything. Youāre not a police detective.
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This is not an investigation.
Itās all good, I can decide for myself what I think, thanks
Today, I have said goodbye šš¼ to someone who had fallen for me
Iād rather be honest than ghost him
Because you have a big heart. Lots to heal š©·
