I think my gf is cheating on me with someone šššš
Doesnāt seem like it. Quiet group
Yea it seems that way so how are you anyways
Not good tbh. Iāve never felt so alone and broken š
I seriously canāt stop thinking about him. Any time my brain isnāt occupied there he is. I can do this,,, right?
I had my first heartbreak After 2 years
I donāt know how to Deal with it
I am still productive, but I feel lost and lonely
My strategy: assume Iāll be alone forever, let the mind adapt
Sometimes leaving someone is the best choice to make for yourself and your mental health. It can still break your heart though. If that person was everything you wanted and then consistently didnāt show up. You can only give so much and get so little for so long.
Still havenāt moved on from him
Itās been almost 3 months
Iām right there with you, love. We can do thisš
Iām feeling the big sad today. Iām realizing just how lonely I feel in my day to day life when Iām not working or occupied with something.
Because you have thoughts you have yet to resolve or confront
You should probably stop avoiding it because it will always have time to wait for you
Has anybody else ever felt like that?
Gotta love you first tho. Because your life is the one you're living in. Others will always come and go but you will always remain. So don't let those from the last let you down because all you have is the you and the now š„ŗ
That person came back into my life again..Iāve never had so much trouble letting one person go. I used to think he hung the moon, now Iām just scared of being hurt again. I love him but I donāt know if he loves me..why does he keep coming back š„ŗ
Iāve tried to set them..weāre āstarting overā for the third time and setting boundaries. But he says he wants to ānaturally fall for me againā..and I guess I never fell out of love..so I donāt understand it
Iām sorry to hear that. Doesnāt sound very healthy for you
Itās not and I know that.. š I just canāt seem to move on
You'll only move on when you are good and ready to. š„ŗ The ride mat be rocky, but you'll work out on the end whether you truly wish to be there or not š„ŗ
Part of me wants to be ready. Iām the one who left him all three times because it hurt me so much to sit in false hope and wait for him to be ready for me..but he is always in my mind. Everything reminds me of him. It hurts so much and I want to be done, but donāt have the confidence that Iāll ever actually be done š
Well, the only person who can change that is you I'm afraid. š„ŗ If he's gonna keep hurting you, then only you can say, no more! It's hard to walk away from what we are used to and comfortable with, but even tho it hurts at the start, it's the only way to heal ourselves. And remember that the world is full of people. So trying to put all your hopes into just one person is not only a lot of pressure on them, but it's limiting your own opportunities in life as well š„ŗ
Just remember whose life you are living. not his. Not anybody else's. Just yours š„¹
Thank you for that. I hope I can find the strength to put myself first
You've always got that strength tho. š„¹ You just gotta think about what feels best for you a lil bit more is all
