But a message to say hey Sam gonna be away for a day or so would have been nice
Whatever the reason, he needs to be alone
Yes but when someone is depressed, that is not how your mind works
I still want to be in his life
And itâs best that you wonât
You have offered your help
He will ask if he wants to
Saying that he can do that as we are friends not dating no more
Why do you need to be in his life so much?
I donât have anyone else
It seems, from what you say, that you are in different positions
You need him. He doesnât
He has all the power in the friendship
One having the power over the other is control
Better no one than someone who isnât the right person for you
Iâm sorry to say it this way
Yeah itâs just hard as I have anxiety with making new friends
That person is not interested in having a friendshiprelationship with you
We make friends through mutual interests and connections
Yeah itâs so hard though
Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it x
I am sorry he has disappointed you
But you deserve a different type of relationship đ
Yeah he literally my only friend away from family and therapists
I unpacked the boxes he sent me home with. Inside are two gifts he got me for our wedding day. Idk what the point of hurting me is. Rubbing it in.
Itâs makes him feel better by hurting you, you have to not give him the satisfaction
I want to yell at him but it wonât do any good. Heâs a narcissist who hits women.
We all deserve better than this.
Heâs not worth your thought
Iâd say something, but sometimes my opinion is suppressed by censorship, even if thereâs real evidence to support it
Saying things like: maybe someone isnât guilty simply because they are accused, doesnât seem to be acceptable conduct. Honestly, I wish people were more measured in their perceptions, as I think this leads to more good, even if it hinders virtue signalling
You donât have to accept anything. Youâre not a police detective.
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This is not an investigation.
Itâs all good, I can decide for myself what I think, thanks
