Maybe you could organize a get-together with a group of friends to either play games, do a book-study, watch movies, or something that you all can look forward to and make this a regular thing y’all do like once a month or so
Idk just a thought. Trying to think of things that your friend can be involved in and turn their loss into a passion for something else instead
Grief is a tricky one - everyone deals with it in different ways, and it’s hard to stand by and watch a friend self destruct
They are drinking to soothe their pain, and unfortunately, only time can help heal their wounds (and it might not ever really heal).
Perhaps try and talk to them (if they’re willing) - give them a safe space to talk about their loss.
Also maybe help them keep to a stable routine - if they’re not taking care of themselves, maybe step in and help them take care of them for a bit.
JayMan’s suggestion of doing something to look forward to is a good one - find something they loved to do, and arrange a small group of friends and family to join in
While you can’t force them to go get help from mental health professionals, or force them to go to AA meetings, you can help them keep an active lifestyle
Like inviting them out for gentle walks each week
Keep in mind, this person isn’t just grieving the loss of their spouse, they’re grieving the life they envisioned sharing with this person
Sometimes just being there for them is all you can really do - show them extra love and care, that there’s still people who are living who still need and love them
Good luck, 👁️ ❤️ 🦋 N 🐞, you’ve got this - they are very lucky to have such a caring friend like you 🤍
Alternatively, in the meantime, are you able to look for a second job? Or another job that will pay higher?
Have any of you ever experienced pressure on one side of your brain
.some time pressure in the whole thing and your eyes
I have experienced this on and off for a long time with different visual distortions at times but is more frequent recently
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