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Maybe you could organize a get-together with a group of friends to either play games, do a book-study, watch movies, or something that you all can look forward to and make this a regular thing y’all do like once a month or so
Idk just a thought. Trying to think of things that your friend can be involved in and turn their loss into a passion for something else instead
Hi 👁️ ❤️ 🦋 N 🐞, welcome! That’s a fair bit to unpack there
Grief is a tricky one - everyone deals with it in different ways, and it’s hard to stand by and watch a friend self destruct
They are drinking to soothe their pain, and unfortunately, only time can help heal their wounds (and it might not ever really heal). Perhaps try and talk to them (if they’re willing) - give them a safe space to talk about their loss.
Also maybe help them keep to a stable routine - if they’re not taking care of themselves, maybe step in and help them take care of them for a bit.
JayMan’s suggestion of doing something to look forward to is a good one - find something they loved to do, and arrange a small group of friends and family to join in
While you can’t force them to go get help from mental health professionals, or force them to go to AA meetings, you can help them keep an active lifestyle Like inviting them out for gentle walks each week
Help them to look after their bodies and ensure they’re eating properly
Keep in mind, this person isn’t just grieving the loss of their spouse, they’re grieving the life they envisioned sharing with this person
Sometimes just being there for them is all you can really do - show them extra love and care, that there’s still people who are living who still need and love them
Good luck, 👁️ ❤️ 🦋 N 🐞, you’ve got this - they are very lucky to have such a caring friend like you 🤍
I hope everyone has a wonderful day all of you are amazing
Gm n thx a lot guys for that inspiration n advice. ☺️
I need to make some money but my job won’t give me anymore hours
Any ways I can online?
You could try applying for jobs that allow you to work remotely like a virtual assistant
Or book keeping - that is usually done online too
You could sell something?
Are you handy with any special talents that you could sell? Like painting? Crafts?
Alternatively, in the meantime, are you able to look for a second job? Or another job that will pay higher?
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Have any of you ever experienced pressure on one side of your brain .some time pressure in the whole thing and your eyes
I have experienced this on and off for a long time with different visual distortions at times but is more frequent recently
Is it effecting your vision?
Well yes
Would highly recommend going to see a dr about that
I have and I have further appointments to go to with references but I was just curious if anyone had experiences something similar
And go see an eye dr too
They might have to refer you to a specialist if it’s the 👀 kinda thing