Glad u opened up about what fully is bothering u
Think this out thoroughly if u see a real future with him , cause it maybe misleading in some ways for both of u if u go in hard and deepily and those problems become too much to handle
I got mislead from a male for years
It will be a waste all around
I need a advice, anyone up?
i always come here to check in
hey purply im good how are you
honestly just work. been a really busy week. other than that i spent the rest of my day in bed lol. wbu?
also, i actually do need some advice. just to know if id be a btch or something because i feel like it would be but idk
or more like outsider opinion
And just chillen a little
im so sorry its a little long. so bare with me 😅
okay so my cousin&her husband let my boyfriend and i move in with them. we were in tough times because lived in my childhood house together previously and my mom kicked us out on the whim. gave us no time to prep, so cousin let us move in right away. like within 4 days. but we learned that theyre both really messy people, dont take accountability for their messes and expect us to clean up after them /: my cousin also always helps herself to my food whether its something i buy, or a bowl im m...
or a bowl im making for myself, she’ll like pick through to take pieces with her fingers without asking. theyre great people otherwise and i love them. but i mentioned we were looking for a house to rent and she asked if they could move in with us. and i really want to say no because of these reasons, but they helped us a lot so i feel like id be a btch if i refused? its also worrisome because theyre always calling out of work with no hours to cover. i honestly dont know how they both still h...
this isnt a judgement but
when u ask this question but how will u get an a house to rent when u dont have enough for an apartment even ?! u are basically homeless!!!
just say u are looking for an apt not house so your cousin dont ask to move in with u i hope that helps
u changed ur mind even if u choose a house
do u and ur bf have jobs ?
and them eating your food and all not asking or telling u at all , isnt healthy behavior to deal with
they should say can u add to the house food some money
yes we both do, i have a great job as a teacher so i get decent pay as well. thank you for the advice i really appreciate it 🩷
