Yeah from her experience maybe
Yes...that's what I said. From my experience
I think being a owner is not something you learn.. It's something you are born with it
But I do believe they need to have some time pass by to gain experience in order to be DomsMasters....you can't be a Master at 19
You are born with it, but you need the experience
I agree but there are some exceptions
And there is definitely a lot to learn
Yeah there is a lot to learn
Hi all…. This looks like to could be mine and the wife’s kinda room ❤️
Hope all are well
But for naturals they seem to learn quickly
There are things that take time
I can do what you like 😋😅
As someone that got into the lifestyle at 25 I will say being dominant in a relationship comes naturally, learning to be a Dom, specially a good one, takes time. You will make mistakes, just hopefully they are not ones that leave lasting damage, no matter how “natural” you think you are.
With the lifestyle out without it we all make mistakes and still do
A little difference in hurting my significant other’s feelings and leaving a lasting scar. Whether it’s a physical or mental doesn’t matter. A Dom can cause damage in a way that never truly heals if they do things wrong or even worse they can reinforce trauma because they don’t bother to concern themselves with where a subs desires come from.
I agree.. Being a dom is not about taking it's about giving
What he gets is only a reflection of what he gives
Most Doms or anyone handling someone with that much vulnerability, would careshould care where their desires and roots of their trauma and liking for BDSM culture stems from
My love of BDSM also stems from my trauma and ptsd
the right person is the one who makes you feel safe, wanted, loved and secure
Trauma and ptsd doesn't have a chance with the right person
I mean he was nice at first
That's why i said the right person not the nice person
The right one would never change
I was also not in the age range we supposed to be either but also he wasn’t
As much as the dom can seem cruel and hard.. But the right ones actually have a very gentle heart
If he has that he will never hurt his sub
Mhms but helped me find the type of people I like aka girls
Well every experience has it's ups and downs.. I'm happy you had something good out of it at least 😊
All expirience help you find something out
This room always gets quiet.
Seems like really nice people here
I hope you all are having a good day
thanks, you too Chemical 😇😸
