Imma shoot y'all bass down
>>> What’s goin on 😂
My mil started verbally attacking me...
According to her,I only do a "couple of dishes"(I literally deep clean the kitchen every day and she knows it)while she had to do all of last night's (mind u didn't asktell her to do it she decided she's gonna do it on her own) and kept going on it's UNACCEPTABLE for her to do the dishes maybe once or twice every month cause she works the whole week and I'm at home "doing nothing" 🫠🫠🫠
She was saying that after I told my fiance I wasn't feeling well idk why but I assumed it was my blood sugar and iron
So he forced me to take a nap and like 20 Min into that nap she woke me up and said since I didn't do anything today I need to make dinner tonight it's "the least I can do"
Why is your mil in your house?
Is your husband a mamas boys
But she couldn't afford rent by herself
And
We save a lot of money renting together
But omfg I'd rather be a little broker than renew my lease with her
Weird, does he not say anything to her when she adds like that?
Or does she act like that when he’s not around
He does defend me always
But she doesn't care
I mean, she’s embolden by something
Honestly, it’s a red flag for me that your partner is allowing a woman who isn’t kind to you remain in your house. Even if it is his mother.
He either needs to let her know that wont be tolerated, or give her 30 days to find new living arrangements.
Yeah, it’s not gonna get better. It’ll just get more extreme and worse
I would NEVER allow someone who spoke to me like that, to remain in my life let alone my house.
She used to be very kind to me and she gave us a place to stay when we didn't have anywhere to go
He does stand up for me
And he's always telling her off
Seems like a situation yall need out of
Until I find a permanent position there is no getting out of it rn
Thank you for reminding me why I will never get into a relationship again
she needs to understand that you are allowing her to stay with you guys, you guys don’t have to help her out
I’m a very logical person, so for the sake of seeing everyone’s PoV, let’s remove the titles: engaged, son, mom, mother in law.
Let’s all just call them roommates, does anyone’s point of view change?
Yes
Cause he's mu fiance not my roommate
>>> she needs to understand that you are allow...
Exactly!!
Honestly I think when the lease is up we gonna move into our own place cause the toxicity isn't for me
Right but that’s allowing emotions to lead the charge.
He’s the problem,
3 roommates live together, 2 work & 1 does not. Roommate 3, is upset that in her mind roommate 2 will not do chores while roommate 1&3 are at work.
I understand where you’re coming from too though. Boundaries should of been a major discussion or need to be a major discussion again so everyone is on the same page
>>> Right but that’s allowing emotions to lead...
My fiance isn't the problem here
I really tried to fix my typo before that’s what you focused on ):
Lol it's okay I understand
Do you feel you put in enough work around the house?
But boundaries was set
But apparently we the only ones who needs to follow her boundaries
