You also don’t know what’s going on In his life right now.. maybe he did meet someone and it’ll just cause confusion 😅 and bring back a wave of bad memories or feelings
No prob! Just been on both ends at one point LOL so I can relate to both sides. I think if you’re still on his mind eventually he will look for you if that’s the case and if not it’s good he isn’t brought back to a past he may be trying very hard to forget & grow from. Thanks for considering a different perspective
Eh, I wouldn’t do it. That’s a huge age gap. Probably won’t work out long term and also destroy your family dynamic. Family is important. If you lose that and it doesn’t work out with him.. then what?