The way I see it, the onus was on him to be truthful to his mother about his relationship with you. If his mom made an arranged marriage that means he kept his relationship with you a secret
How can I make this matter better?
Unfortunately it's already been decided from the looks of things. If he was to choose between you and his family he would have chosen you by now. The fact that no choice has been made is also a choice in itself
I know it's not what you want to read or hear. But the sooner you realize he was just delaying the inevitable and stringing you along the better it will be for your healing process to get over the hurt and the betrayal
I know it's not easy for you to understand what is happening but a son, especially a mothers first born is the last ever love of her life. And trust me you don't want to come between that bond
I really hope you can find a peaceful resolution to this situation
I just want to be with him
5 years is a marriage if you ask me...
Some marriages these days don't even last 5 years
So exposing myself and talking with his mum won't help?
However the romantic in me feels like you should talk to his mom with your mom
But remember a marriage has already been arranged. And also I feel like you are asking the same thing over and over
Hmm such difficult situation
Have answered as best as I can
It is but she has to come to terms with it. There's already an arranged marriage in place
The mothers mind is made up
I don't know how to get over this
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
When his my first and only
He should have told you the way things work in his faith from the beginning
We started when we were 21
Can u explain to me how dating works for muslim?
He should have spoken to your parents long ago if his intentions were pure. It's all about his intentions and from the look of things his intentions were not to marry you
It's difficult to explain but it's different for everyone.
>>> Can u explain to me how dating works for m...
It's different from each family, some allow you to approach him and some who immediately marry it
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