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But all I wanted was for that girl to leave him
Then do what Nihad said but that's highly unlikely. Because she wants him as bad as you do. Guess you're gonna have to fight this one out. Ultimately he should honour's his mother and father but love conquers all at the end of the day. If he truly loved then he will find a way for you both to be together
How did the girl get your number?
His mum told him to cut ties with me
Its either me or them
Would it be wise to go talk to his mum?
Yeah need to come to terms that he won't choose you over his family. That's just how it is in most cases. For the girl to have texted you he must have given then number to his mother and she then gave it to her.
She's never met me
Doesn't matter
She doesn't need to meet you to know that's she doesn't want you with her son and that's the harsh reality of the situation
Yes, that's true
The way I see it, the onus was on him to be truthful to his mother about his relationship with you. If his mom made an arranged marriage that means he kept his relationship with you a secret
How can I make this matter better?
Yes, that true
Unfortunately it's already been decided from the looks of things. If he was to choose between you and his family he would have chosen you by now. The fact that no choice has been made is also a choice in itself
I know it's not what you want to read or hear. But the sooner you realize he was just delaying the inevitable and stringing you along the better it will be for your healing process to get over the hurt and the betrayal
Thankyou
I know it's not easy for you to understand what is happening but a son, especially a mothers first born is the last ever love of her life. And trust me you don't want to come between that bond
You're most welcome
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I really hope you can find a peaceful resolution to this situation
Me toooo
I just want to be with him
5 years is a marriage if you ask me...
Some marriages these days don't even last 5 years
Agree
So exposing myself and talking with his mum won't help?
No
However the romantic in me feels like you should talk to his mom with your mom
But remember a marriage has already been arranged. And also I feel like you are asking the same thing over and over
Hmm such difficult situation
I ha
Have answered as best as I can
It is but she has to come to terms with it. There's already an arranged marriage in place
The mothers mind is made up
Thanks
I don't know how to get over this
Sorry everyone
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
Don't be sorry
Its ok
The dude is to blame
When his my first and only
He should have told you the way things work in his faith from the beginning
How does it work?
We started when we were 21
Not like this
Can u explain to me how dating works for muslim?
He should have spoken to your parents long ago if his intentions were pure. It's all about his intentions and from the look of things his intentions were not to marry you
It's difficult to explain but it's different for everyone.