Tbf I left with dignity before they can dump me especially when I saw the red flags increasing and non-existent bare minimum. The boundaries are clearer after all those experiences. Plus, the art of detachment helps

Oof yes…they are all over this app, the professional breadcrumbers who bench

The zombies who ghosted and came back are the worst of the lot

The nonchalance is cringe thinking they can just come back into our lives when we have moved on from their pathetic existence

Remind yourself of the hurt when they ghost you without valid reasons. It just shows disrespect and disregard for your feelings. Tbh they are selfish too, detach because you don’t want to go through that again. It is only tough because you are hoping he won’t ghost again thinking he will change. Nope, that’s trauma bond so 🏃🏻‍♀️ from ghosters especially zombies when they come back

Of course 😉 best way indeed

It actually hurts them more to see your nonchalance towards them zero reaction to their resurrected presence in your life lol

That what they deserve and more for hurting others

YES!!!!

Good guys don’t ghost tbh. They would respect you more. “Good guys” probably had other girls too 🤷🏻‍♀️

Factssss!!!!

If you remembered how he made you feel, crying alone to sleep at night without replying to messages like he didn’t care, it will be easier to let go eventually…you don’t want that to happen again hun 🫂 you deserve better than all the breadcrumbing and benching…

Yes!! 🎯

It is the hope they erroneously gave us of what could have been and nah, that’s very selfish of them if they don’t mean it and string us along like a placemat…definitely more at peace and happier being single and thriving than being in a lonely & abusive relationship or hopeless situation-ship with no future in sight, filled with anxiety and overthinking the worst. Everyone deserves better than such mistreatment

Yes 🙌🏻 💯 🎯

Yes 🙌🏻 I agree ☝🏻 🎯 Boundaries define what we deserve too and pls do not settle for abusive or toxic behaviour. Time to walk away when you feel taken for granted or boundaries are crossed as you definitely deserve better. The word deserve only seem more common now as we call out selfish and abusive behaviour unlike in the past some suffer in silence with no strong emotional support or even financially tied to a toxic relationship they cannot leave.

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