You get what you accept 🤷🏻♀️
Cheating is not just sleeping with someone else
That is true. Before i found out he was doing this I had suggested that sometime in the future we could try opening up the relationship, he was and still is against it. I guess I’m unsure of what to do now since he has proven he won’t change. Tbh im scared to leave him.
We have two kids and I’m scared of how this would affect them.
Or do I stay and we open the relationship regardless of what he wants ?
Wtf is a open the relationship 😂
Oh right im not that open minded for this place
I don’t think this is the right approach and it going to cause stress and conflict
Kids can be affected by separation but also by parents struggling in their relationship
I think it is very selfish of him that he is cheating and not changing this behaviour but only expects you to be loyal
If the respect is out the door, for the kiddos and your sake, just get outta that relationship. It’ll just do you more physical and emotional damage if you stay and if you’re not completely ok with the relationship being open like that 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 hope you find the clarity that you need
If he isn’t a good role model for the kids, you should consider moving on too. You don’t want them growing up to be cheaters like him and disrespectful towards their own SO in the future. It is scary to leave as change is always scary. Just focus on yourself and your kiddo’s’ wellbeing, that would give you amazing strength. All the best ✨you deserve better. 🫰🏻
Hello, when a relationship is still salvageable?
Could you be a bit more specific, please?
Like I broke up cuz we couldn't communicate, and surprisingly it's not improving ugh
But are you still together or not
Who has trouble communicating?
Also I decided to leave him, my kids and I spent the night at my parents and today I will be meeting with him to let them know I am leaving and so I can begin getting my things from the house
Wow 😮
I am proud of you and your courage
Hope things will be better for you and I’m glad your family is there to support you
Why do you want to get back together if it’s not working?
If you have to open up the relationship then there really isn’t a relationship to begin with
Open relationships aren’t for me
You are correct that it wouldn’t be “a” relationship anymore and that’s because you’ll be in more than one relationship simultaneously
I wish to just say it as it is, folks in supposedly “open relationships” are just selfish, it is cheating openly without dire consequences, as they can’t be committed and faithful to one partner in a monogamous relationship. Why bother to stay in that “relationship” while you continue to f ard? I can’t imagine how a partner feels to know their SO chose to f someone else and then still come back to the same bed with them. Emotionally and psychologically hurting someone because it is never enou...
Emotionally and psychologically hurting someone because it is never enough for one party and the other is just manipulated to go along to preserve the pseudo-“relationship”. Disrespectful circumstances.
Dating apps are a nightmare.Wonder where the decent, respectful guys are
They’re in hiding mode. Just like the great gals on this 🌎🤭🤭🤭👀
That’s why we all gotta top up on that self love 🥰🥰🥰 from time to time 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Not just from dating scene but also in every day life too 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
>>> Not just from dating scene but also in eve...
true cos dating just a promotion...lol
