Depends how you see it but great debates makes some great conversations. Kinda like how contrasting works. In order to feel and appreciate happy, we need sadness đđđ
I suppose. Iâll just keep my political opinions to myself đ personally
I donât like talking politics either. But itâs kinda challenging not to talk about it as itâs constantly happening
I find it very enlightening tbh
Especially when it reveals when people find other groups of people to be sub human
You shared them yesterday
When you talked about Trump taking care of DEI
Yes and going forward âI willâ (future tense) keep my political opinions to myself since I saw the clashing views were causing some problems between some users already đ€
Some users such as�!
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Not naming names đ howâre you today?
Give us s scenario for advice
I think ppl need to ask more specifically before any of us can provide you the clarity that youâre looking for. The more vague, in general, and broad your inquiriesâthe more challenging it is to respond to it đ« đ« đ«
Is it okay or normal to now know how to feel when you catch your SO cheating on you over and over. At first I was hurt and mad, but now. Idk đ€·đ»ââïž
I think you should not be in that relationship
A cheating partner is an oxymoron
Why do you accept cheating?
I donât. He didnât sleep with anyone but he did text soooo mannyyy girls. Had been from the moment we got together and I just caught him again last night. He goes time with not going anything and then he gives in.
You get what you accept đ€·đ»ââïž
Cheating is not just sleeping with someone else
That is true. Before i found out he was doing this I had suggested that sometime in the future we could try opening up the relationship, he was and still is against it. I guess Iâm unsure of what to do now since he has proven he wonât change. Tbh im scared to leave him.
We have two kids and Iâm scared of how this would affect them.
Or do I stay and we open the relationship regardless of what he wants ?
Wtf is a open the relationship đ
Oh right im not that open minded for this place
I donât think this is the right approach and it going to cause stress and conflict
Kids can be affected by separation but also by parents struggling in their relationship
I think it is very selfish of him that he is cheating and not changing this behaviour but only expects you to be loyal
If the respect is out the door, for the kiddos and your sake, just get outta that relationship. Itâll just do you more physical and emotional damage if you stay and if youâre not completely ok with the relationship being open like that đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ» hope you find the clarity that you need
If he isnât a good role model for the kids, you should consider moving on too. You donât want them growing up to be cheaters like him and disrespectful towards their own SO in the future. It is scary to leave as change is always scary. Just focus on yourself and your kiddoâsâ wellbeing, that would give you amazing strength. All the best âšyou deserve better. đ«°đ»
