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I’ve just got too much on my mind

Overthinking keeping me awake and my partner doesn’t like talking so I’ve got no outlet

She doesn’t listen

She has to much of her own problems* and doesn’t want anymore

It’s a complicated situation. She has yes

She’s not a horrible person though

She just isn’t quite right

I’ve tried. She has a flight or fight response and always chooses flight.

I agree and I’ve always viewed relationships as such. But the weird part is I don’t know what needs to be resolved

There’s no immediate problem besides my need to communicate

And just vent openly

She has adhd which definitely factors as so why talking is hard

She knows, and it’s not that she doesn’t care, more that she’s not in a position in life where she can change her stance. She’s not forcing me to be here and she’s made it clear that this is how she is. I’m choosing to stay because of who she is

Yeah pretty much. I don’t want validation just someone to talk to

We’ve been together for coming up 3 months. She has a very traumatic past so the longer we are together, the better things become with her trusting me

I know that the end result will be what I want, it’s just really hard right now

I don’t think she will matter less

I’ve never felt this way about anyone before

My whole lifestyle has shifted since meeting her. But not because of her, because it’s what I want. It’s like the best part of me has come out since her

She wouldn’t be bothered about who I talk to. The relationship we have is built on trust. And I have no bad intentions being here

I just need to talk to people. And the sad truth for me is that I talk better to woman. And most the woman I know in my life I could talk to, I’ve been romantic with in the past so it feels more inappropriate to talk to them

But also the whole point of anonymity is that I don’t know who I’m talking to. It could be male or female or anyone

I definitely understand that but I’m not concerned about that because I know how I feel. I wassingle for 6 years before this at my own choice, waiting for the right person. And im sure I’ve found them despite the struggles I’m having. I just need an outlet cause I know there are times what I need to say are pointless and can be detrimental on our relationship.

I do appreciate your concern though 🙂

She has a lot to deal with on the daily, she has a lot of mental problems. I don’t need to be adding my own insecurities about being lonely and weigh her down more then she already is, because realistically, I’m probably just a bit too clingy haha

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