I have been ok, how are you?
Ive been alright myself ty ty
Can I ask for insight on something
Doesn’t sound too good 🫣 wanna talk about it?
No, I am going to say it here.
Im feeling great actually I arrived at Croatia yesterday for a full week of just cycling haha
Is Croatia that close to you
Yeah it’s nice haha but the streets here are so bad 😂 my butt hurts after just two days hahahaha
So, this guy I have been talking to, I told him mentally I was going through something and feel like shutting down. He said he would prefer I vocalize if I need space, I agreed and said I always vocalize. He stops talking to me for four days without notice, but is looking at all my things I post. He messaged me today saying he was giving me space and thought about me all weekend, but he never said that. I told him it was weird that he wanted me to say I needed space but did not think he had t...
to say it to me. Am I in the wrong for finding that wrong
If you wanted space and he gave it to you what's wrong with that
I mean you even said that you would vocalize it so I think it’s weird he just decided that on his own or am I getting your wrong here?
Well texting is a gambling game, what if he interpreted something as you wanting some space. Talk it out 🤷♂️
I never said I wanted space. I said I would let him know if I needed it and he left the messages on read after that
Correct, he decided for himself
Oh then l don't know what to say. Maybe he needed space
It just confused me because if you say you want me to communicate but you do not, then that seems hypocritical.
It's ok sorry l don't have the answer but good luck
As I got to know you so far I would say you’re a pretty direct person not beating around the bush so idk why he thought like this. Have you told him that you thought it’s weird?
I did and this is what he said
Hmmm do you want my honest opinion on this?
I did ask for insight so yes
Well he semi explained what happened and expressed he didn't want to lose you
Just to be clear, he and I are not dating.
But you like each other I guess?
I meant as a friend that's the way l read the screen shot
