I think for me this would be something that I personally wouldn’t be able to move past. Even ifwe could and temporarily move past it - if I ever got upset I feel like it might be in the back of my mind. I couldn’t imagine being in a ltr where that might creep up or live in the back of my mind at any time. That might be something to consider. Could you put this thought behind you and have it never come up again or bother you in the future? Especially if you all should bump into each other som...