We ignore red flags because we want to be loved and sometimes they come at a time when we feel vulnerable andor lonely
Did you start your relationship when you were 13?
Why do you want to do that?
You donāt have to date other people just because he wasnāt faithful
You started dating at a young age. Why donāt you give yourself some time for yourself?
Well. In this case, I think no need for advice.
It doesnāt matter. Your mindset is very different to mine. I canāt help, sorry.
Iāll tell you something from my personal experience. Last year I decided to give dating apps a go. š±
I met a couple of men who claimed to be interested in being exclusive with me from the very beginning. Even before I had decided to give them a chance.
Very soon after that, I found them on other dating apps. While they were chatting with me or even having dinner with me.
So what did that teach me?
People donāt want to be exclusive. Itās a lie.
Yes, itās very legit what you want
Although you might be looking for in the wrong place I think
Life together is very high expectation nowadays. Take it easy. One step at a time
But you are telling yourself a story of personal blaming
For different reasons, you didnāt feel comfortable. It could have been him, or you, or the communication, or the lack of it, or your needs not being metā¦.
You said: āIām convinced he might be a good guyā
This is your fear of being alone speaking.
He could actually be a good guy, but for different reasons, you donāt seem to be ready for a relationship
I donāt know what to say to people who start on long relationships at such a young age. Sorry, I canāt help you.
