Yeah It’s tough cuz like in a club people make out a lot, but they might not wanna do it with trans people, but they can’t know unless they’re told. But on the other hand trans people can’t go walk around with “Im trans signs in a club” so idk

But when it comes to dating they should tell it at least during the first date imo for sure

I get that and personally agree but looking at it from their pov it’s a hassle to have to tell all the time while non trans people can just roll with it

Idk about most but yeah that’s not right for sure

Imo they should communicate it but it’s not that simple if you think about it. Cuz if they have to tell that. Do infertile women also have to tell guys when starting to date? Or people with health conditions? Or depression? Or stress? Where is the line and when is it oversharing on the first date?

I do get where you’re coming from though like people that are in a relationship also should tell the other before making out. I think it depends on the act (like sexual stuff) and duration (like is it a first date or a full blown relationship)

That’s up for debate, depression can cause a lot of harm to partners

That is absolutely not what I’m saying dumbass. I too wouldn’t want to make out with a trans person not knowing about it. It’s deception, but all I’m saying is that it’s not the only form deception. Also that I can empathize with the struggles that come with being trans.

I disagree. When it comes to YOUR partner you can be as picky as you’d like. You can pick the hair, shape, gender anything you like. The can do the same. Transphobia is when you discriminate people because they are trans, that’s different from partner choice.

This I agree with

That’s the silver lining

Respectfully you’re absolutely wrong. Because with your ideology everyone is racist, sexist, homophobic and transphobic to everyone they don’t wish to date. It’s a stupid way of thinking. Discrimination only applies to things that don’t have an impact on the context. Your sexuality and gender do impact the context of a relationship. Therefore it’s not transphobia to pick a non-trans partner

I understand both povs and I’m not saying what trans people should or shouldn’t do, but we can’t call people transphobic because they don’t want to be with someone trans

So if someone prefers dating black people are they racist? If they prefer tall girls over short girls is that discrimination to you? Discrimination is when you wouldn’t be allowed to go into a restaurant because you were trans. Or getting verbally attacked over it. It’s that simple

Over all it just comes down to live and let live. Pick the partner you want. Be respectful of trans people and try to address them the way they feel comfortable with. But respect also means respecting cis people and communicating your gender identity before getting intimate. Respect needs to come from everyone

Discrimination is treating people different because of an irrelevant factor (like race, gender, IQ, personal interests, etc). When it comes to dating those things are relevant, because those things impact your relationship and your future. For example if you’re with someone from a different religion it can cause problems in the relationship. If you’re with a skinny guy he might not be able to lift the heavy things a musclar guy would. Those things even small, do impact your relationship. So i...

. So it’s absolutely reasonable to choose not to date trans people if you don’t want to. You can also choose to only date trans people. You choose YOUR partner. I rest my case.

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