Cat its ok to be or not be one
U are always welcome to vent here , im sorry they are toxic , u ever try grey rocking them and also is there anyway u can move in with other family
Or get a job that will pay for your own place
Always be u , even if the forces are against it cause u can only be u always anyways , You are amazing and perseverant and u will overcome this , even if it may take some time , it can happen
She is just going by what info he is giving her
She didnt check his socials
So he is conni g her also
BUT most not all are good
Some are good to a point only
He needs a addiction specialist more then a regular therapist
And last be can be lying to u that he talked to her or him anyways , and just telling u this to let him do it
I think u know what to do Moon
Either u keep tolerating this disrespect and it gets worse
Or bail out , now before he continues to do this and maybe the next step to cheating
If this upsets u and u let it slide now cause u see he will find ways to continue , then he dont respect u and if he can get away with this he woll continue and do worse , this is where self respect needs to be honored on your end , this is your life u deserve better then this garbage
