I didn't want to tell a guy exactly where I lived and I told him him he didn't need to know that, he saw it as me getting defensive and I told him if he sees it that he can leave. He called me immature cause I told him that he didn't like he felt hurt cause I didn't tell him what he wanted to know
I'm guessing he wasn't going to keep that in mind. I seem to think most people will until proven otherwise
Yup but people won't often care to be that safe space
Of course not, he didn't care. I realize i come across people like him for a reason
To speak up, make boundaries, face fears or not pay attention to them
Its hard making boundaries with some people in person
You can't just block them like online lol
I haven't been dating anyone cause honestly am scared of the dating scene or don't feel ready
Does anyone know who to call or go to for help with hospital bills. They gave my mom the news that her heart was fast and they're not helping with telling her we still owed from the last time she went. I called 211 and am thinkingin calling the hospital and or cardiologist who doesn't seem to actually consider my mother's state but I worry in not getting help
I'm worried she'll need to go to the hospital again cause they told her that but then she'll worry more if she goes and worries about another bill
I'm also scared for my own heart and health ๐ญ
She has anxiety and I don't know if they keep that in mind cause the ride over there plus being in a place that doesn't give her comfort in some way, doesn't make things better. She doesn't know full English and I feel bad that I didn't go with them thinking there would be a translator like last time and them not telling her things because they'd see me and or my dad. They're the ones that need to explain to her and us tje info that we dont know
She had a fib, weak heart. She doesnt rest like she should and worries etc. I totally get it. Its been hard for her cause she can't do what she used to. But she needs to heal
Ima try to look for information but I also need to drink tea and stuff to calm down too haha. Ima make her a tea and put some music to see if that helps in the meantime
Her specialist seems to make her anxious and telling her what she owes, he didn't need to do that if he saw her state
Contact billing at the hospital or cardiologist? Cause at the clinic they only seem to bill people but not mention help etc
It is... very overwhelming but we all gotta try pull through. As in little by little? And I dont have social media or whatever for that to be seen. Have seen others do it though, go fund
My dad and mom are in their 60s. Our main doctor isnt the best of help either. She liked a doctor she used to have so maybe we can try him, idk
