My friend likes me. Although he is cute, treats me the way I want to be treated...I can't seem to feel something for him yet. Even on our "dates" I tend to think about my ex. This is horrible of me to do but I can't help it, he does everything I wished my ex did for me so it feels too good to be true. Are my feelings valid?
Am I wrong for thinking about my first love while I have something possibly meaningful? I just keep on thinking how I feel like I deserve someone who I truly feel strongly for and he deserves someone who feels strongly for him but then again, we've only met recently so even him liking me so strongly takes me back and makes me slightly uncomfortable. I just don't understand how someone can like me already while only knowing the surface level
these thoughts alone make me feel quite awful because it's also me saying that I don't think the guy infront of me is worthy of my love and he's sweet he deserves to be loved and possibly not from me. How do I let him know? I've said some things out of kindness without realizing that later on it can be seen as leading him on which was never my intention...I don't know what to do...I know I shouldn't go with a man solely because he treats me
It was an entire message but it didn't let me put the whole thing so I'm sending it in bits
I never catch feelings for anyone too early which is why I'm waiting it out and seeing if something changes
He caught feelings very early
I actually don't want my ex back i thought of my ex because it brought be back memories to when I wanted him to treat me that way
But it's too early for him to feel so strongly for me which is why I find it suspicious
I agree he deserves someone who will like him the way he likes someone
