The Ultimate Wedding To Do List: Because Love Needs a Plan!

So, you’ve said yes to the love of your life! Now, it’s time to dive into the thrilling, often chaotic, yet fun-filled world of wedding planning. But hold your unicorns! Before you get lost in a sea of Pinterest boards and bridal magazines, let’s discuss the one thing that can save your sanity: a wedding to do list!

1. Set a Date (And Stick to It!)

First things first: you need a date! Whether it’s a summer bash or a winter wonderland, find a date that works for both of you. But beware, if you pick a holiday, you might be sharing your special day with Uncle Bob's annual BBQ!

2. Create a Budget (Yikes!)

Time to talk money, and not the fun kind! Determine how much you are willing to spend and allocate funds to different categories like venue, attire, and cake (a very important category!). Don’t forget to add a ‘crazy aunt’ fund—trust us, you’ll need it!

3. Choose Your Wedding Party

You can’t have a wedding without your ride-or-die squad! Choose your bridesmaids, groomsmen, and any honorary members. Remember, this is the team that will help you survive the planning chaos. Choose wisely!

4. Pick a Venue

Location, location, location! Whether it’s a grand hall or a cozy backyard, find a venue that reflects your style. Just make sure it’s big enough for your ‘plus ones,’ or you might have a few angry friends at the door!

5. Send Out Invitations

Now that you’ve got the basics down, it’s time to let the world know they’re invited to your love fest. Choose a design that matches your theme and send them out like confetti! Just be prepared for that awkward moment when someone forgets to RSVP.

6. Plan the Menu

Food is the key to many hearts, including your guests! Choose a menu that reflects both of your tastes. Remember, vegetarian or gluten-free options are a must—unless you want your wedding to be a ‘hunger games’ scenario!

7. Book Vendors

Photographers, florists, DJs—oh my! Line up your vendors and make sure they understand your vision. Read reviews and do your research. After all, you want your big day to be memorable for all the right reasons!

8. Find Your Dress/Suit

This is the moment you’ve been waiting for! Find the perfect dress or suit that makes you feel like royalty. Just remember, if you think it’s the one, try not to cry too much—waterworks and delicate fabrics don’t mix!

9. Plan the Honeymoon

Although it seems like an afterthought, planning your honeymoon is crucial! Choose a destination that excites you both. Whether it’s a tropical paradise or a charming cottage in the woods, make sure it’s a trip that screams “we just got married!”

10. Enjoy the Moment

Last but not least, take a breath and enjoy the process! This is your love story, so savor every moment, even the stressful ones. Remember, it’s about marrying your best friend, not just about the flowers!

Bonus Tip: Use an App!

Consider downloading an app (like AntiLand!) that allows you to vent about your planning struggles or share funny wedding stories anonymously. Who knows? You might find someone else planning a wedding and you can swap notes or invite them to your confetti-filled day!

Now that you’ve got your wedding to do list, get ready for the adventure of a lifetime. Because nothing says love like a perfectly organized wedding—where everything goes according to plan (well, almost!).

Happy planning!

Charlotte Taylor, Blog Writer, AntiLand Team