Words You Should Never Say on a First Date (Unless You Want to Scare Them Away)

Ah, the magical realm of dating! You swipe right, throw on a fresh outfit, and work up the courage to say "hello". But then it happens…you open your mouth and let slip some words that should have stayed firmly glued inside your head. Well, worry not! Here are some delightful (but utterly disastrous) words you should avoid saying on a first date.

1. "So, do you want kids?"

It’s a classic question that can go one of two ways: either you’re planning a future family with your first date or making them run for the nearest exit! Keep it light, folks. Maybe ask about their favorite pizza toppings instead.

2. "I’ve been dumped 7 times"

Whoa there, cowboy. Sharing is caring, but some things are better left unsaid. You want to build rapport, not list your exes like they're Pokémon cards. Stick to fun stories instead!

3. "I can cook, but I usually just microwave stuff"

Sure, honesty is great, but let’s not scare them off with your culinary skills—or lack thereof. Tell them you love experimenting in the kitchen instead.

4. "I totally stalked your Instagram"

Creepy much? Instead of revealing your secret detective skills, compliment them on an interesting post. They’ll appreciate the attention without the creep factor.

5. "What’s your credit score?"

Yikes! Unless you’re planning to apply for a joint credit card on date two, steer clear of financial interrogations. Let’s just say that’s a conversation best saved for a potential wedding planner.

6. "I’m not looking for anything serious"

While honesty is appreciated, uttering these words might make them think you’re just looking for a Netflix buddy. It’s like saying, "Hey, I’m only here for the free appetizers!"

7. "My ex is still in the picture"

Nope, nope, nope! They don’t want to hear about your past romances unless you’re ready to share some juicy gossip. Just talk about your favorite travel destination instead!

8. “I’ve never been on a date before”

Congratulations, you just made it awkward! No one wants to feel like they are breaking in a newbie. Instead, share a funny dating fiasco—everyone loves a good laugh!

Wrap It Up with Words You Can Use

So, there you have it! Next time you find yourself on a date, remember to keep those cringe-worthy words you just read off the table. Instead, fill the air with laughter, fun questions, and light-hearted banter. Who knows? You might just find yourself in the right chat room of love—or at least a short-lived fling.

Happy dating!

Written by Megan Brooks, Blog Writer, AntiLand Team