Real Dates: The Epic Adventure of dating in the 21st Century

Ah, real dates. Those mythical creatures we all long for. Not the kind you find stuck in a small Tupperware container in your fridge, but the ones that have you laughing until your sides hurt, sipping overpriced cocktails, and questioning your life choices while trying to figure out whether you should share that last piece of dessert.

The Quest for Real Dates

In a world dominated by swiping left and right on apps, it’s easy to forget what a real date feels like. You know, the kind where you actually interact with someone face-to-face, and the only emojis involved are the ones that appear on your phone post-date.

The Pre-Date Prep

Before embarking on this thrilling quest, let’s talk about prep. You wouldn't show up to a dragon-slaying mission in flip-flops, right?

1. Choose the Right Venue: Coffee shops can be great, but let’s be honest, they’re also a trap for awkward silences. Consider a mini-golf course or an escape room. You’ll either bond over your shared incompetence or end up plotting how to escape from each other.
2. Dress to Impress: Now’s your chance to strut your stuff! Be the best version of you. But remember, no one wants to see your full-on wedding attire. Keep it cute, casual, and most importantly, you.
3. Prepare Your Material: Jokes are good, but don’t overdo it. You can’t impress them with your best knock-knock joke when they’re still trying to remember your name.

The Date: Let the Games Begin!

Once you’ve checked off all the pre-date boxes, it’s time to dive into the magical abyss of real dates.

• The Meeting: There’s this beautiful moment when you first see your date. Make it memorable! Go for the classic wave or a funky dance move. Who could resist a date who knows how to bust a move?
• Engaging Conversation: We all know that one person who can turn any conversation into a monologue about their cat. Don’t be that person! Ask interesting questions, share your own thoughts, and remember—listening is sexy.
• The Departure: Whether it’s a friendly hug or a slightly awkward handshake, make your exit memorable. No one wants to be the person who disappears like a magician’s assistant.

After the Date: The Real Question

Now that you've survived the exhilarating adventure of real dates, what’s next? Should you text them? Should you wait three days and pretend you’re cool? Here’s the deal: honesty is the best policy. If you liked them, let them know!

Conclusion

Real dates are about the experience—the laughter, the connection, and the spice of unpredictability. So, strap on your dating armor, get out there, and create some real memories. Who knows? You might just find your partner-in-crime and embark on the greatest adventure of all: love.

And if you're feeling a bit shy, remember: there’s always the option of anonymous chats to get your confidence up before diving into the real world of dating.

Happy dating!

*Amelia Morgan, Blog Writer, AntiLand Team