The Phone Too: Why You Shouldn't Ignore Your Device While Dating

So, you’ve finally decided to dip your toes into the world of online dating, and you’re excited to find love or at least a fun fling. But then you realize that your phone is glued to your hand! Yes, I’m talking about the ubiquitous smartphone that has become an extension of our very selves. You may be scrolling through profiles looking for that perfect match, but let’s face it: you’re also scrolling through your social media and the latest viral TikTok trends, all while trying to keep up a conversation with someone who might be ‘the one.’ Talk about multitasking!

The Love-Hate Relationship with Technology

Let’s not kid ourselves; we love our phones! They provide us with endless entertainment, cat videos, and, let’s be honest, that sweet dopamine hit from a ‘like’ or a match on a dating app. However, they can also be a major distraction when you’re trying to connect with someone. Ever been on a date where both of you are just staring at your phones? Cringe!

We’ve all seen it at restaurants, couples sitting across from each other, engrossed in their phones like they’re in a competition for the latest meme. So, is it possible to date while keeping your phone too? Absolutely, but it requires some finesse!

Pro Tips for Phone Etiquette in Dating

1. Set Boundaries: Make a pact with your date to keep phones down during meals. You both deserve each other's undivided attention.
2. Use Your App Wisely: Why not have your date join you on an anonymous chat platform? Not only can you have fun conversations, but you can also playfully argue about why your phone is actually your new best friend.
3. Share the Love: Instead of scrolling through TikTok alone, why not share hilarious videos with your date? Just remember, sharing is caring—and it beats awkward silences!
4. Be Present: Focus on enjoying the moment. Put your phone away and show your date that you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them.

When Your Phone Becomes a Wingman

At the end of the day, your phone can be a fabulous wingman, helping you to meet new people and maintain connections. Just remember: while your phone can help spark a conversation, the real magic happens when you put it down and engage face-to-face (or avatar-to-avatar). And if that doesn’t work out, at least you can always blame it on your phone too!

In the modern dating game, it’s essential to strike a balance between enjoying the perks of technology and being present in the moment. So go ahead, date away, but remember to give your phone a little timeout every now and then. Happy dating!

Megan Brooks,
Blog Writer, AntiLand Team