The Sums of Our Lives: Why We Can't Stop Adding Up!

Ever wondered why we humans have a knack for counting sums? Whether we’re counting the number of likes on our latest selfie or tallying the number of times our crush has ignored our messages, numbers seem to rule our lives! But let's be real, sometimes those sums can lead us down a rabbit hole of anxiety, confusion, and witty existential crises.

The Sum of All Fears

Remember that movie, "The Sum of All Fears"? It’s a classic tale of nuclear madness and suspense. But in our context, it means the sum of your dating fails or your unreciprocated crushes! Talk about a plot twist!

Why Do We Care About Sums?

• Validation: Each like, comment, or message adds to our ego’s bank account.
• Comparison: Ever compared your dating life to your friend’s? Yeah, that’s a sum game too.
• Goals: Setting goals in love and life often boils down to one thing: sums!

Did you know that the average person spends about 8 years of their life on social media? That’s one big sum of stagnation, if you ask me!

Counting Sums in online dating

When it comes to online dating, the sums can be downright absurd. You know the drill—how many matches, how many conversations, and how many ghostings? In the world of swipes, the sums can be a rollercoaster. One minute you’re at the top of the funfair, and the next, you’re looking at your phone wondering where it all went wrong!

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly Sums

1. Good Sums: The number of dates that led to something amazing: a relationship, a new friend, or a hilarious story to share later.
2. Bad Sums: The number of times you’ve been left on read.
3. Ugly Sums: The math of emotional baggage: adding up all the heartbreaks to find the net gain of love.

Conclusion: Embrace the Sums!

At the end of the day, life is just a series of sums, and it’s how we deal with those sums that makes us who we are. So, whether you’re counting the number of times your crush liked your post or how many awkward dates you've had, just remember – each sum adds a little spice to your life!

And if you need a platform to share those experiences and count on new connections, look no further! Count your blessings, not just your sums.

So, what are you waiting for? Get out there and meet more fabulous people! Maybe it’ll even add up to love!

Hannah Mitchell, Blog Writer, AntiLand Team