Hey Game: How to Level Up Your Social Life in 2023

Ah, the hey game—the timeless art of breaking the ice, making connections, and, let’s be real, trying to not come off as a total weirdo. It’s 2023, and in a world where ghosting is as common as texting your ex on a Tuesday, knowing how to navigate the hey game can make or break your social life.

What’s the Hey Game, Anyway?

Let’s start with the basics. The hey game is all about initiating conversations, whether you’re sliding into DMs, approaching someone at a bar, or chatting in an anonymous space (think AntiLand, but without the branding). It’s that delicate balance of being intriguing but not too eager, playful but not creepy. You want to be the conversational equivalent of a perfectly toasted marshmallow—golden brown and sweet, not burnt and bitter.

Step 1: Crafting the Perfect Hey

This is where it gets spicy. A simple “Hey” might work for your grandma, but if you want to catch someone’s attention, you need to jazz it up. Try something like:

• “Hey, if you could have dinner with any fictional character, who would it be?”
• “Hey, what’s your go-to karaoke song? Just in case we ever end up at a bar together.”

These are conversation starters that scream personality. You don’t just want to say “hey”—you want to invite curiosity!

Step 2: Timing is Everything

You wouldn’t text your crush at 3 AM asking them to be your emergency contact (or would you?). Timing plays an essential role in the hey game. Know your audience! Is it a Friday night? Perfect! A Tuesday morning? Maybe hold off on the deep existential questions about cats versus dogs.

Step 3: The Follow-Up

So you’ve initiated. Now, what? This is where a lot of people fumble. If they respond, be sure to engage with their reply. Don’t just leave them hanging like a pair of mismatched socks! Ask questions, share your thoughts, and keep the momentum rolling. If they say they love hiking, don’t just say “cool.” Instead, ask about their favorite trail or share a funny hiking mishap!

Step 4: Know When to Fold

Sometimes, the other person isn’t responding how you’d hoped, and that’s okay! In the hey game, it’s key to know when to move on. If they ghost you harder than a haunted house, don’t take it personally. There are plenty of other players in the game!

Leveling Up: From Hey to Date

Once you’ve mastered the hey game, you might find yourself ready to take it to the next level: the date. This is where you put all those conversation skills to the test. Keep it light, keep it fun, and remember, everyone is just as nervous as you are!

In conclusion, the hey game is all about experimentation. So go ahead, get out there, and start saying hey! Whether you’re looking for friendship, love, or just a fun chat, the world is your oyster. Now, go ahead and play the hey game like a pro!

Happy chatting!

Chloe White,
Blog Writer, AntiLand Team