How to Make Friends as a Teen: The Ultimate Guide to Not Being a Lone Wolf

Ah, teenage years—those blissful chaos-filled times when you’re unsure if you should care more about your grades or your crush’s latest TikTok dance. If only making friends was as easy as swiping right on your favorite pizza toppings! But fear not, my socially awkward friend; I’m here to guide you through the art of making friends as a teen without the cringe factor.

1. Put Yourself Out There (But Not Too Much)

One of the golden rules of making friends is to actually be where other teens are. You can't expect to make friends if you’re huddled in your room binging on the latest Netflix series (unless it's a group binge, then you’re halfway there). Join clubs, sports, or volunteer—trust me, looking for common ground can be a catalyst for friendship.

2. Start Small: A Smile Goes a Long Way

Did you know that smiling can make you appear more approachable? No, really! Channel your inner friendly dog—tail-wagging vibes only. A simple smile, a wave, or a nod in the hall can open the door to conversations that can lead to lifelong friendships. Who knows? You might just find a partner-in-crime on your next adventure!

3. Embrace the Power of Social Media

We live in a digital age where social media reigns supreme! Use platforms like Instagram or Snapchat to connect with your peers. Just remember, do not go full-on stalker mode; that’s a one-way ticket to being the school’s social pariah. Keep it casual—like commenting on their latest post about their cat’s birthday party.

4. Be a Little Vulnerable

We know, it’s scary to open up because what if they don’t like your quirky obsession with collecting rubber ducks? But guess what? Being authentic and sharing your interests can attract fellow duck enthusiasts (or whatever floats your boat). Vulnerability can build trust, and trust can lead to friendship.

5. Try Online Platforms

Okay, here’s where I get a little spicy. If you’re not vibing with the people at school or if your social environment feels like a black hole of solitude, consider venturing online. Platforms like AntiLand allow you to make friends anonymously and explore different chats based on your interests. Meet quirky avatars and share confessions—because who wouldn’t want to bond over embarrassing moments?

6. Be Open to Different Types of Friendships

Not every friendship is meant to last a lifetime, and that’s okay! Some friends are for sharing snacks during class, while others might be your go-to for movie marathons. Be open to different types of friendships and understand that each person you meet can bring something unique to the table.

7. Stay Positive

Negativity is like that one friend nobody wants to invite to the party. If you’re always grumpy or complaining, people will steer clear of you faster than they would a homework assignment. Instead, focus on the positives and share your excitement about life—even the small things. Positivity is contagious, and it attracts other upbeat souls to your orbit.

Conclusion: Remember, It’s a Journey, Not a Race

Making friends as a teen can feel like navigating a minefield of social awkwardness. But it’s totally doable! Put yourself out there, be genuine, and most importantly, have fun with it. Remember, friendships are just like pizza—sometimes you get a weird topping you didn’t expect, but you can always find a way to enjoy it!

So, go on and make friends, you social butterfly in the making! 🦋

Jessica Baker, Blog Writer, AntiLand Team