How to Make a Date: A Step-By-Step Guide to Your Next Romantic Adventure!

So, you’ve met someone online or perhaps in a completely unexpected place (like the grocery store aisle that smells like overripe bananas), and now you’re thinking, "Hey, I want to make a date!" But how do you go from swiping right to swiping on that cute dress or dapper suit? Fear not, fellow romantic! Here’s a spicy guide on how to make a date without the awkwardness of a first kiss that feels like a game of dodgeball.

Step 1: Make It Casual

When you’re thinking about how to make a date, the first thing to remember is to keep it casual! Instead of saying, "Will you go on a romantic dinner date with me and let’s talk about our future children?" opt for something more relaxed like, "Hey, want to grab coffee and talk about how cats are secretly ruling the world?"

This way, if the date goes wrong (like the time you tried to cook spaghetti and ended up setting off the smoke alarm), it doesn’t feel like the end of the world.

Step 2: Choose the Right Activity

The activity you choose can set the vibe for your date. If you want to make a date that feels like a rom-com, consider a fun activity like mini-golf or a cooking class where you can bond over your shared inability to sauté vegetables without almost burning the kitchen down.

And who doesn’t love an excuse to laugh at each other’s terrible skills? Bonus points if you leave with flour on your clothes and your hair looking like a failed science experiment!

Step 3: Communicate Clearly

"Let’s make a date" is a phrase that should be accompanied by some clarity. Share your availability, and don’t forget to ask about theirs! It’s like trying to find a unicorn in a foggy forest; you need to be direct.

Try: "I’m free this weekend, how about Saturday?" Clear, simple, and direct. No riddles or scavenger hunts; we’re adults here!

Step 4: Embrace the Awkwardness

Let’s be honest: first dates can be awkward. Embrace it! If you both awkwardly sip your drinks while staring at each other, just laugh it off. If someone spills coffee on their shirt, help clean it up and say, "Well, if this isn’t a total disaster, I don’t know what is!"

Step 5: Follow Up

After the date, if you had a blast, don’t ghost them like it’s Halloween! Send a message saying you had a great time and would love to meet again. It’s like sending a virtual high-five!

Bonus Tips:

• Be Yourself: No one likes a phony. So rock that quirky sense of humor or love for dad jokes!
• Use Avatars for an Extra Touch: If you’re meeting someone from an app that has cool avatars, consider sending them a cute avatar of yourself before the date. It’s a fun icebreaker and shows your creative side!

In conclusion, making a date should be fun, light-hearted, and authentic. So let’s get out there and make some memories – even if they involve a little awkwardness and a lot of laughter!

Happy dating!

Abigail Wright, Blog Writer, AntiLand Team