Frends: The Unfiltered Guide to Finding Your Next Bestie
Let’s face it, finding frends in the wild can feel like searching for a unicorn in a haystack. Seriously, it’s like trying to find a good avocado at the grocery store—everyone is looking, but most of them are just brown and mushy. But don’t fret, because in this digital age, there’s a magical realm where you can discover your next bestie without the awkward first date vibes.
The Dos and Don'ts of Making Frends Online
Do: Be Yourself, Even If You're a Little Weird
Let your quirky flag fly high! Whether you’re into collecting rubber ducks or you have an extensive knowledge of 90’s sitcoms, embrace your inner weirdo. The more genuine you are, the better your chances of attracting fellow weirdos who will become your frends. And who knows? You might just find someone who shares your obsession with that one obscure show no one else has ever heard of.
Don't: Slide into DMs Like a Ninja
When you finally find that potential frend, don’t be a creep! Instead of popping into their DMs like a ninja in the night, start with a friendly shoutout. “Hey, I love your avatar! We should totally bond over our love for pineapple pizza!” Who wouldn’t want to connect over that deliciously controversial topic?
Do: Join Clubs that Speak to Your Interests
Whether you're a bookworm, a gamer, or a cat whisperer, there’s a club out there for you. Get in there and mingle! Find a space where you can discuss your favorite topics and meet people who are just as passionate. After all, you don't want to be the lone wolf—or should we say lone cat—hanging out in the corner wondering why no one approaches you.
Don't: Ghost Like a Haunted House
If you’ve made a connection with someone, don’t just vanish into thin air like a ghost on Halloween. Communication is key! Whether it’s a simple “Hey, how’ve you been?” or “Did you see the latest episode of that show we love?”, keep the convo flowing. Who knows? You might just find a frend for life!
The Benefit of Making Frends Online vs. IRL
Let’s be real, the whole "in-real-life" frend-making process can be daunting. Small talk? What’s that? With online frend-making, you can bypass the awkwardness of meeting someone at a party while pretending to enjoy the music. Instead, you can chat from the comfort of your couch, in your pajamas, with a dog (or cat) in your lap.
Plus, with the power of the internet, you can connect with frends from across the globe. Want a frend in Australia? Done! Looking for a fellow sushi lover in Japan? Easy peasy! The world’s your oyster—or should we say avocado?
The Final Word on Frends
In the end, whether you’re looking for a frend to binge-watch a series with or someone to share deep existential crises over pizza, the key is to be authentic and open to new connections. So, throw on those comfy socks, grab a snack, and dive into the world of frends, because your next bestie could be just a click away!
Now go out there and grab those frends like they’re free samples at Costco! Just remember to keep it light, fun, and above all, totally you!
Happy frend-finding!
Samantha Johnson
Blog Writer, AntiLand Team