Why Your Ex Boyfriend Should Be Your New BFF

Ah, the ex boyfriend. That one person we all seemed to have shared a whirlwind romance with, and surprisingly, they’re still lingering in the back of our minds like that weird smell on the bus. We’ve all been there—dazzled by love only to end up with the cringeworthy memories and a slightly used sweater they left behind. But let’s talk about a radical idea: What if your ex boyfriend could actually be your new best friend?

The Sassy Reality Check

Let’s face it: when a relationship goes kaput, the heartbreak is real, and so are the countless awkward moments. But once you’ve put on your big girl pants, and those feelings are dusted away with a glass of wine and a solid Netflix binge, it’s time to reconsider that ex.

1. The Root of the Problem

One of the best parts of dating your ex boyfriend is knowing him inside out. You’re already familiar with his quirks, his talent for burning toast, and his obsession with that weird sci-fi series. What more could a best friend offer? You’ve got all the inside jokes ready to go, plus that shared history which can spark some serious nostalgia—and maybe a few laughs.

2. A Free Therapy Session

Who better to vent about life’s absurdities than the guy who’s seen you cry after a bad haircut? Your ex boyfriend is like a free therapist who doesn’t charge by the hour but instead gets to hear about your latest dating disasters over drinks. Just imagine—sharing your next romantic fiasco with someone who knows exactly how your dating profile looks like (and why it’s a catastrophe).

3. Unleash the Revenge Planning

An ex boyfriend can also be a superb partner in crime. Whether you’re looking to regain your confidence with a glow-up or planning the ultimate revenge against your latest heartbreaker, having a trusted ex by your side could be entertaining. Who knows? Maybe he even has a network of available single friends who are in desperate need of fabulous you!

4. No More Ghosting

Remember those awkward moments before the results of a first date? Well, your ex boyfriend is the antidote to that. With an ex, you can skip the pleasantries and dive into the deep end, where you can talk about that embarrassing moment when you tripped in front of his mom. Having a history means you can both skip the awkward small talk and go straight into the real stuff: life’s mysteries and, of course, why the potato chip aisle is your happy place.

5. Your Ex, The Wingman

Let’s be real—navigating the dating world can be as tricky as attempting to dance in stilettos. Your ex boyfriend knows your dating style, preferences, and what makes you roll your eyes. So, who better to help you swipe right on the potential heartthrobs? He might just have the inside scoop on who’s worth your time (or who to ghost before they even know you exist).

Conclusion: From Lovers to Friends

Your ex boyfriend doesn’t have to be the villain in your love story. If handled right, this ex-turned-bestie could be the person who lifts you up, brings laughter to your life, and even helps you on your quest for love again. So, the next time you think about those cringeworthy memories, consider that maybe—just maybe—your ex boyfriend was meant to be your new BFF.

Let’s raise a glass to the unconventional friendships born from heartbreak! Cheers!

Cassandra Daniels
Blog Writer, AntiLand Team